Coming to America

Although most of us Michiganders are sick of the snow, Oxford High School foreign exchange student Rogelio Blanco is loving it.
‘This was my first time with snow,? the 17-year-old junior said. ‘I like it a lot.?
Blanco hails from Culiacan, Mexico, which is northwest of Mexico City.
On the other hand, foreign exchange student Jesperi Kuitunen from Tampere, Finland is ready for warmer weather.
Both students started their school year in Oxford last September through the Youth for Understanding (YFU) exchange program.
Rogelio is living with host family Mark and Linda Moran, while Kuitunen is staying with Nipun and Jaya Shrivastava, both Oxford residents.
Although it wasn’t their first time to the United States, both students had no idea where Michigan was, and didn’t know what to expect when they got here.
‘I knew everything was bigger,? Kuitunen said.
Rogelio was surprised to experience ice storms and even dirt roads.
‘I didn’t know anything about dirt roads in America,? he said. ‘When I talked to my father and said they have a lot of dirt roads here, he didn’t believe me.?
The Moran’s and Shrivastava’s didn’t know what to expect either, being that it was their first time as a host family.
‘Our experience has been wonderful,? Jaya said. ‘While the host family needs to adjust to a sudden new addition to the family, a lot depends on the teen who comes over, too. We have been very lucky to have Jesperi.?
While visiting the Shrivastava’s, Kuitunen has traveled to Toronto, Niagra Falls and Florida, as well as watching Indian movies with the family, cooking food with them and playing XBox with their younger son. ‘We also play Monopoly, but not too often because he beats us hollow,? Jaya joked.
For the Moran family, inviting Rogelio into their home filled their empty nest. The couple has a 22-year-old daughter who is a senior at Eastern Michigan University, so it was nice to have another child in the home.
The Moran’s, who are avid bicycle riders, were happy when they learned Rogelio enjoyed biking too. They’ve made frequent trips to Addison Oaks, Pontiac Lake Recreation Area and Ray’s Indoor Bike Park in Cleveland to bike.
‘It was perfect. It turns out he could be our kid,? Mark joked.
Besides the cars, roads and weather, one big difference the boys noticed when coming to Michigan was the schooling. Rogelio was excited for all of the newer technology at OHS compared to his private school in Mexico. Kuitunen said there were a lot more rules in America and more semesters here than back home.
Other students at OHS have been very welcoming to the boys, who’ve also been a part of various sports teams and attended dances at the school.
Kuitunen was even nominated for Winterfest Court, but wasn’t able to attend because he was in Florida.
Though being away from their families has been tough, Rogelio and Kuitunen liked that they got to experience the holidays in another country.
Thanksgiving and Christmas dinners filled their bellies, and Kuitunen got to experience Halloween for the very first time, even though some residents said he was ‘too old? to trick-or-treat.
Over the last seven months, the Moran’s and the Shrivastava’s have learned oodles of information about the student’s cultures. ‘We learned that not all Mexicans like hot food,? Mark joked.
Shrivastava encourages others to take interest in hosting an exchange student, and advises them to set expectations up front about chores and behavior, but be cognizant of the cultural differences.
‘Be firm about your rules and values, and you will form a mutually enjoyable relationship,? she said.
For more information on becoming a host family, visit www.yfu-usa.org.

During the 2008-09 school year Goodrich High School hosted six foreign exchange students from five different countries.
Prior to their departure home, the six responded to few questions regarding their stay in Goodrich.
Name: Martin Nahlovsky
Age: 18
Home: Lysa nad Labem, Czech Republic
Memorable: The Stanley Cup playoffs. I went to several Red Wings games in Detroit.
Cultural: School is very different. We have one more year of high school in the Czech Republic and the schedule is different every day.
Learned: I have learned a ton of new words, also a lot of swear words.
Name: Yibo Qi
Age: 16
Home: Shanghai, China
Memorable: I got a lot of cookies in the cafeteria.
Cultural: I grew up in a big city and it’s different with Goodrich. And the holidays are different. I never celebrated Mother’s Day before.
Learned: How to really get along with my host family and understand each other more.
Name: Eu Jin Gong
Age: 16
Home: Cheng Ju, South Korea
Memorable: Korea is a small country, so lots of people don’t have yards. I did yard work here.
Cultural: The culture of relationships between teacher and student is so much different, like trust between them.
Learned: The way to be an adult.
Name: Zhixin Wang
Age: 17
Home: Luoyang, China
Memorable: I was in the Tennis Team and met lots of good friends there.
Cultural: Freedom. In my hometown, we don’t have so much time to enjoy sports.
Learned: I learned to be independent. I learned lots of cooking in the U.S., like cookies and pizza.
Name: Camila Fernandes
Age: 18
Home: Sorocaba, Brazil
Memorable: It’s been amazing to experience this way of life that I knew by movies.
Cultural: People here have more time to enjoy being around friends and practice sports. Because of our schedule in Brazil, we don’t really have that much time during the week to do other activities besides school.
Learned: I’ve learned how important it is to be open-minded. There is so much to see and learn about other cultures.
Name: Yuka Kishi
Age: 17
Home: Japan
Memorable: Homecoming, Snowcoming, Prom, field trips.
Cultural: American people aren’t shy. They eat a lot. Classes finish much earlier. They have funny personalities.
Learned: English and the U.S. culture.

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